Twenty Extremely Forbidden Things to Remember About Dating Russian Women

  • Posted on 01/04/2011

If you want to have a success with stunning Russian women you have to follow some easy rules. One of them is not to do twenty extremely forbidden things which you will find here. Even if it’s ok for you to behave in such way, remember that for your Russian lady it can be quite uncomfortable. Moreover, she can be shocked and disappear from your life just after the first date, and then you will beat your head desperately asking yourself why she avoids you… To have more chances just don’t do next things. Here they are:

1. Come on a date in crumpled clothes, with unwashed hair or with bad breath.
Many foreigners who come in Russia and Ukraine to find their charming beauty don’t care a lot about their look when they go on a date, while fascinating Russian women have special attitude to the style and appearance. They hate men who wear dirty T-shirts and allow to themselves to go outside with unwashed hair. Just imagine strikingly beautiful Russian woman in a pretty dress and in high heeled shoes with her lovely hair who is going out on a date with a foreigner, she is full of hopes and expect something more than she had before, and then, when she see him in his old jeans and terrible T-shirt, with bad breath and unwashed hair, all her dreams disappear in the twinkling of an eye… It doesn’t mean that you have to wear suit, just pay attention to some elementary things and she won’t be disappointed.

2. Be greedy: not pay the bill or pay like it’s a big deal, not leave tips, not pay for transport charges and so on.
Russian women try to avoid greedy and stingy men. They expect that a man will pay the bill if it’s a date - it is in the order of things, the same about transport charges and things such as leaving tips for waiters. Russian ladies want to be in a relationship with someone who have good manners and can take care about a woman.

3. Suggest going to fast food.
It’s quite close to the previous point: first of all such suggestion says about your avarice. Secondly, Russian women hope that foreigners are more romantic and gentlemen, than their compatriots. To pick up McDonalds as a place for the first date or for any other meeting – it’s a sign of nasty taste and fact that you are not a man with whom she wants to spend her life.

4. Try to kiss her when she doesn’t show any signs that she would like to, try to stroke her legs and do other such things which are not acceptable for the first time.
If you want to be more close to your stunning Russian lady, you have to get know each other better firstly. She need time to relax, so don’t expect that you will kiss her without fail on the first date. There are some foreigners who ask themselves: “I paid for a dinner, tried to kiss her but she pushed me away… Why?” It’s a common mistake to think that if you pay for something a woman owes you. Kiss her only when the time is right, and remember that Russian women are not from those who will go to your apartment just after the first date.

5. Stare at other girls and flirt with waitresses when you are on a date or stare at breast of your Russian woman while talking to her.
When lovely Russian woman agrees to a date, she devotes her time to you and expects that you will focus all your attention on her. In this case flirtation with all girls around you including waitresses is extremely forbidden. And be sure that she definitely will notice your staring at other women. She needs to feel special, and if you really want to win a heart of Russian woman, you have to devote all your attention to her, at least on a date.

6. Pick teeth, burp and blow your nose in public.
In Russian culture such behavior in public is quite shamefully and improperly. A man who blows his nose in a public place embarrasses beautiful Russian girls and gets them into an awkward situation.

7. Chew gum during a date.
Chewing gum on a date is a sign of your bad manners. That’s rude and totally not romantic, and shows your lack of respect for the woman. Russian girls don’t like this, well, it’s better for you to forget about this habit.

8. Order food with garlic.
Even if you are not planning to kiss her, don’t order dishes with garlic. It is unpleasant to talk with a person who has bad breath, and it’s no wonder if after such date Russian woman will have no intention to meet you again. And remember that Ukrainian cuisine often includes garlic, so don’t forget to ask waiter about it.

9. Order bear on a romantic meeting.
ever order a bear if you want to have a successful date. A bottle of champagne, good wine or cocktails are always better; they make the situation romantic while bear is something which is close to football matches and meeting with friends. If you drink bear on a first date Russian woman can decide that you are going to drink it always during all your life, and they don’t want such future for them.

10. Be foul-mouthed.
In spite of fact that many Russian ladies don't know English well, if you swear, definitely they will understand something. Bad manners – bad sign for Russian women, and there are no chances that they will like your swearing.

11. Smoking on a date while she is a nonsmoker.
Russian ladies are very kind, that is why there are many chances that your woman won’t say anything if you smoke even when she is a nonsmoker. But when she returns home with her beautiful hair and clothes permeated with smoke, there are not so many chances that after this Russian woman will answer on your calls. Moreover, nonsmoking Russian ladies don’t like to kiss smokers, and it’s not surprising.

12. Tell her stories about all Russian women which you have met before.
Some foreigners like to tell stories about all Russian women they have met before. It’s not interesting for Russian ladies to hear from you stories about other Russian girls. If you are on a date, forget about all other women except that only one who is with you.

13. Speak about your previous bad experience with women on your homeland.
The same about all boring sad stories how it’s impossible to find true love on your homeland. Russian ladies don’t need to know that you have come here because of your bad experience with women there. If you don’t want to look as a born looser, don’t tell stories about your unhappy relationships with women.

14. Show her a picture of your ex-wife or ex-girlfriend on your cell phone.
If you are divorced or have children, it’s unambiguously better to mention it. But there is no need to show Russian woman with whom you are dating with all pictures of your ex-wife or ex-girlfriend. Telling long stories about them is also forbidden. Russian women have normal attitude to divorced men with children, but if you look backwards all the time, she will understand that you cannot move forward with her, and it’s the road to nothing.

15. Sharing with her your financial worries.
Financial problems are not that subject which you have to discuss on a date with a Russian woman. Your stories about outstanding accounts, high prices for the food and your hotel room, about expensive tickets, credits and financial problems with your job are not that things which Russian women expect to hear from you. It’s boring and not promising, so forget about your financial worries for the meeting time.

16. Ask your Russian woman about her income.
Questions about income are taboo in Russian culture. All the more it’s a bad idea to ask your Russian woman about her salary on a first date. Such discussions are uncomfortable, so it’s better to avoid them.

17. Tell jokes constantly.
Sense of humor is desired and appreciated, but you shouldn’t tell jokes constantly. Because of different languages and nationalities most probably she won’t understand all your jokes, and in this case it can be boring and tedious.

18. Talk about your mother during all evening.
Do not tell on a first date to your Russian woman long stories about your mother: she can decide that you are not independent. Moreover, who like mother’s boys?

19. Get drunk on a date.
Gorgeous Russian women hate drunk men. It’s neither attractive nor sexy. As far as you are not hanging out with friends, don’t drink a lot. To get drunk is the highway to ruin everything in a relationship. Keep the drinking under control and don’t offend your date.

20. Offer sex without a condom.
Russian women respect themselves enough, so don’t propose anything unacceptable to them.